Facebook

You are being a bitch. I was already in love with the new layout and YOU had to change back to the stupid old layout. Now, Facebook is lagging like my lagging brain.

Getting the fuck out. Sleepy!

DINNER WAS AWESOME :D

Facebookers VS Puteri Athena Maimunah

Everyday, there is someone (either OLDER than me or younger than me) venting their anger on someone via Facebook status. PEOPLE like them are the cause of controversies. They don't realise that they are pouring more kerosene onto their own fire.

About time I rant this out. How ironic. I am currently, not practising what I am preaching but I am just in the mood to voice out a thought!

The sickening part is, they often come to me for advise and when I do give them advise, they IGNORE me completely. In the past, I had my emotions KILL me. I am NOT going to let that happen again! So, when I share my life experience, SOME SMART DUMB ASS ignores me completely and then do the worse. They vent more and more on their Facebook statuses. If you are NOT happy with a certain someone, just shut the fuck up and then just delete that person off your Facebook instead of PROVOKING more anger..

There is this one girl, my God. She thinks she is so strong. All talk. All brag. She even TAGGED the person she got angry with on her status. HELLO? HOW WOULD YOU FEEL WHEN SOMEONE HUMILIATE YOU THE WAY YOU HUMILIATE THEM? I commented on her status and even wrote on her wall saying, "Just ignore that girl. Or, just delete her off your Facebook. Silence does not mean defeat." but NO.... she DELETES my comments. Are you just as lowly as that girl? She keep on making statements about that girl calling the other girl a bitch and so forth. Your actions make your look like a bitch as well. You think you are perfect. And it even went to the extend on sharing links of the other girl's picture with spiteful comments. To think the girl I tried to advise is just as cheap. (SORRY TO SAY)

How do I compare people like this girl to my niece, Athena? Well, Athena, you tell her what to do, she will do. Athena is ONLY 17 months old and she is more obedient compared to a 20 year old! Jee. It does irk me. It annoys me.

When they suddenly realise that they started a controversy, they INSIST that they won't apologise and then just disappear out of Facebook JUST LIKE Hani Tarmizi, Lynette Lincoln and Joanna Anne. They lack ONE thing my 17 months old niece have. RESPECT for other people! Come on! Even Athena knows when to salam and ask for forgiveness when she knows she did wrong!

Even when you are angry and you only have your Facebook to vent it out, you don't go to the extremes of TAGGING the person's name on your status and start RANTING ABOUT them or AT them! Just use metaphors... or if you are straight forward, just say you are annoyed or upset WITHOUT HUMILIATE OTHERS ONLY TO SHOW HOW GREAT YOU ARE!

Even as I blog this I am talking about a certain someone whom I am annoyed with but I did not ONCE mentioned her name. Jee. If you know I am blogging about you, I am comparing you to my niece because you can't be told to do what is good and you don't seem to accept any advise from someone who've been far more experienced than you!

I wish the people using Facebook would just grow up... especially those who are ALWAYS angry at the world and always show their problems on Facebook. Even in a Kursus Nikah, you are taught that what is personal SHOULD NOT be shared with other people and here is this person SHARING HER PROBLEMS to more than 200 people on her network!

Jee. If you were my sister, I think you'd get a good slap across your face and thank your lucky stars, I am not. And I thank God you are NOT my sister, if not, I'd be ashamed to have such a disrespectful sister like you. I am also glad Nuril is more mature than you considering Nuril is only 17 years old! Jee!

PS: Athena is the Greek goddess of War and Wisdom but my niece, Athena has more warfare-ness within her than wisdom but her wisdom is pretty much spontaneous.

Someone To Talk About

Note that I said SOMEONE not SOMETHING to talk about.

There was an outburst on Facebook lately about a Hani Tarmizi. She is more popular than any of the Akademi Fantasia students. There is a catch. She had got a WHOLE STATE cursing at and hating her. What state is that? My homeland. Sarawak, East Malaysia, Borneo.

How did she become so famous with the Sarawakians' hatred towards her? Just because of ONE Sarawakian disturbing her husband, she label MOST Sarawakian girls as sluts and bitches. That is her mistake. I would think, her husband has something to do with it. And of course, I blame the Sarawakian girl, too. I am NOT going to support that Sarawakian girl but I am supporting the fact that Hani has NO RIGHTS to label MOST Sarawakian girls as sluts and bitches because of ONE person... She has NO RIGHTS to judge a WHOLE STATE because of ONE person. Yet, somehow, I pity Hani for receiving all those curses from the biggest state in the country.

I am from Sarawak and though I hate husband stealers that doesn't mean I go around condemning a particular state as a whole. Hani had proved herself to be a RACIST AND A STATE-IST. If you are angry that someone is trying to steal your husband, you don't judge her as a Sarawakian but as an individual. AS JUST ONE PERSON. No matter what her race or religion or where she originates from.

But, considering our beloved Prime Minister is trying to get us to stand united to be 1Malaysia. I think, and I am so sorry to say, it is only wishful thinking if STATE-IST like Hani exist. I love the idea of 1Malaysia but so sorry to say this and I am being honest, as far as I am concerned, Sabah and Sarawak are demonstrating real 1Malaysia-ness.

The Sarawakians are standing united to fight against Hani's mindless statement. It is good to see no matter what their races, religions and origins are, they are standing together to sign a petition to get Hani to apologise to ALL SARAWAKIANS for her inconsiderate statement.

Also, this is vital, DO NOT INVOLVE YOUR PERSONAL LIFE INTO FACEBOOK... It might end up being a controversy. And if you were getting a divorce, you announce it on Facebook to let the whole world know that you are going to be single and available soon? Wow. Talking about self-promoting. It is logical that whatever problems you face in a relationship (whether it is your marriage or your engagement or with your boyfriend/girlfriend) YOU DO NOT GO AROUND TELLING PEOPLE ABOUT IT NO MATTER HOW ANGRY OR UPSET YOU ARE WITH THE SITUATION. That is what you call it a personal problem. Let the personal problem remain personal. Don't shout it out to the world. You are not the only one in Cyberspace. The whole world is. Thus, the world is getting smaller these days.

I hope in the future, people (I am not pointing to ANYONE from any state in particular) won't repeat the same mistake as Hani. Her spiteful words ended up controversial and she ended up popular. In a bad way.

Like how we Sarawakians say it, "Femes dengan sumpah seranah jak." *giggles*

NOTE: Everything written in this blog entry is just a personal thought.